Introduction to Prostate Massage
by Ken Melvoin-Berg
About the Male G-Spot
Prostate Massage is one of the best ways to take your orgasms to the next level. This technique was originally called a man massage, a special massage for men, or milking the prostate. Most of these terms are outdated but the term prostate massage is what we use today.
If this is a new concept to you, it can seem a bit intimidating. If you have experimented with prostate massage and a partner, you might be looking to try it alone with a toy.
This site will help you no matter where your prostate experience falls. Prostate (P spot) stimulation can happen in a few different ways. As an added benefit, it is good for your overall health.
There are a variety of prostate massages. They can be either internal or external. Prostate massage can be done with a partner or alone.
Anatomy & How to find the P-Spot
The prostate is located between the bladder and the base of the penis. It wraps around the urethra like a donut and rests on the neck of the bladder.
It is best stimulated internally, but this takes some practice. To first locate and use the prostate, sexual arousal needs to take place. The shape and size of the gland actually become erect, like a penis. It hardens, so it is easier to find.
Once the receiver is fully aroused, the paraurethral gland, a small lump can be felt. This lump is located about 3 inches into the rectum and up towards the belly button. When aroused, this lump may be smooth or rigid.
The prostate gland has a main function as a paraurethral gland to produce fluid for semen. Almost 50% of the fluid in semen is produced in the prostate.
External Prostate Massage
Externally, the prostate can be stimulated through the perineum (between the scrotum and the anus) with fingers or a high intensity vibrator. Rub this area firmly in circles until you build an intense pressure that builds as orgasm grows.Lubrication is not necessary for an external prostate massage.
This can be done easily by yourself or with a partner. Unlike internal prostate massages that work better with a partner, this technique is just as good solo as it is with a partner.
Becoming familiar with anatomy will help immensely. Locating the correct part of the perineum is vital. The correct area is much closer to the front of your body that the back. With a finger, experiment reaching up and forward.
Prostate massage is to be done during arousal. You will need a lot of firm pressure to affect the area. At the same time, stimulation with either a handjob or a blowjob will help.
Prostate massage orgasams are much more intense when they are internal rather than external. A great way to enhance external orgasams is with the use of high power vibrator. Apply vibrator firmly to the external prostate while sexual stimulation is occurring.
Cultural & Social Notes promoting Sexual Positivity
Editor's Note!
A note about gender and sexual fluidity: Nothing is usually set in black and white. Like life, gender and sexuality come in all variations (the "50 Shades of Grey" title makes a little more sense now, right?) There are many people who don't identify as the gender most often associated with their personal sexual organs. A person may also be straight, gay, or anywhere on the spectrum in between. If you would like to learn more about gender and sexuality terms, Arnold Zwicky has a wonderful guide HERE