Solo prostate play with a toy
Now that you know where the prostate is and what it feels like, you can try to stimulate the prostate by yourself. Your fingers may not be long enough or give you enough of a proper angle to reach the prostate on your own. Prostate toys are specifically designed to help with this as they have a special curve that reaches the P Spot.
The first step here is to get aroused. Start by getting to full arousal and start masturbating, but do not cum. You now need to lube up and insert your finger into the anus and leave it in. Start getting aroused again and insert your finger in to locate the prostate. At this point if you can reach your prostate with our finger, you won the lottery.
Follow the directions from the previous section. If you can’t reach it (or you don’t want to reach it with your finger), try using a sex toy. Lube up and insert a prostate toy in your anus. Go slow and lube well. Since you have located the prostate before, get the tip of the toy near that area. Make sure the curved part is pointing towards your belly button.
So now you should be relaxed. You will feel aroused. Move the toy up towards the spot where you felt the pressure before. Rest the toy on the prostate and if the toy vibrates, turn it on. Explore the prostate with different sorts of vibrations, pressure, and motions. At the moment you are beyond stopping, put increasing pressure on the prostate. Use a circular motion until you cum. You will have an amazing orgasm and can repeat it anytime.
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Editor's Note!
A note about gender and sexual fluidity: Nothing is usually set in black and white. Like life, gender and sexuality come in all variations (the "50 Shades of Grey" title makes a little more sense now, right?) There are many people who don't identify as the gender most often associated with their personal sexual organs. A person may also be straight, gay, or anywhere on the spectrum in between. If you would like to learn more about gender and sexuality terms, Arnold Zwicky has a wonderful guide HERE